Monday, February 11, 2013

D-NOW

You "MUSTACHE" yourself...

Are you ready for the BEST weekend of your life??
 
KAIROS

D-NOW
March 8-10
 
Cost:$40.00
 
Come join us for an incredible weekend of worship, discipleship and fun!!! Students will be broken into their small groups and staying at host homes throughout the weekend. They will dig deeper into the Word of God and come away with some amazing friendships with each other and their small group leaders.
 
The cost covers all meals, t-shirt and fun at SkyZone.
More details and schedule will be coming out soon.
 
Sign up on Wednesday nights at Voltage or on Sunday mornings with the LifeSchool team.

Don't miss out on THE weekend that God could CHANGE your WORLD!
 
 
 
 
 

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Youth Cancelled

Due to severe weather moving in the area all Celebration Activites for Wednesday night have been CANCELLED!!

Monday, January 7, 2013

Be Blessed - Parent Cue!

Ever wonder what you can do as a parent to help reinforce what your students are learning on Wednesday nights at Youth?

For each series we will start posting a blog that helps you, the parent, know a little more about what is going on, how to pray for your youth and their leaders, and what to say to your students to reinforce what Christ is doing in their lives on Wednesday nights.

So...

This Wednesday night we are starting the BE BLESSED series.

Here's how you can help....


1. Be a Student of What They are Learning

Think about the last time you heard the word “blessed.” What came to mind? For many of us—and many of our students—the word blessed conjures up images of the coolest clothes, the newest gadgets and a worry-free life. But when we look at what God has to say about being blessed, we realize that we probably have things pretty mixed up. Because if being blessed is more about our relationships—and what we do with them—than the stuff we have, we may have some reevaluating to do in order to redefine what it means to be blessed and realize that we might already be more blessed than we originally thought.

 

2. Be a Student of Your Student

Entitlement seems to be creeping into our culture through every mode possible—television, magazines, music. The feeling that we have the right to something—or to many “somethings”—seems to be the new cultural norm. And while it’s easy to blame the media, culture and maybe even other families who seem to give their teenagers everything under the sun, it’s important to remember the hard truth that in reality, entitlement begins at home. What we model to our children is the true determining factor in how they view the world; what the world has to offer and what they are entitled to get from it. But the problem is, for many of us, entitlement isn’t something that our kids alone struggle with. Entitlement is our struggle too.

 

Has this thought ever crossed your mind: “If only there was more money in our family budget, we could do so much more for our children? They could be on the traveling baseball team, go on all the church trips and have all the latest gadgets.” Come on. Admit it! There has probably been at least one time in your parenting journey that you have wished for more—more money, more time … more something. And this is totally normal. It’s a struggle that we all face. So, just for fun let’s pretend: You are still you, with your spouse, your children and your extended family, but now you have everything you could ever want—every dollar, every resource, every “thing” and every need met (and most every want met too). How does it feel? Do you feel happier, healthier and more fulfilled? Do you feel more “blessed”?

 

There is an article that came out in “The Atlantic” in April 2011 entitled “The Secret Fears of the Super Rich.” And while you might expect the focus of this article to be the Dow Jones Index, the real estate market or tax reform, what emerged was something much more relatable to the rest of us. What the article uncovered was the reality that even the super rich fear for the well being of their children. As the article’s summary states: “Does great wealth bring fulfillment? An ambitious study by Boston College suggests not. For the first time, researchers prompted the very rich—people with fortunes in excess of $25 million—to speak candidly about their lives. The result is a surprising litany of anxieties: their sense of isolation, their worries about work and love, and most of all, their fears for their children.” (To read the full article, go to http://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2011/04/secret-fears-of-the-super-rich/8419/.)

 

As one respondent of the survey confided, “Other people glorify wealth and think that it means that the wealthy are smarter, wiser, more ‘blessed’ or some other such crock … it’s hard to get other, non-wealthy people to believe it’s not more significant than that … The novelty of money has worn off.”

 

Can you imagine being able to say that? To say the novelty of money has worn off? Most of us will never be there, but it sure feels good to know that just because someone has enough money to buy anything their heart desires—for themselves or their children—it doesn’t mean that it alleviates their fears. It doesn’t mean that they are more blessed. As a matter of fact, in most cases, it actually ups the ante on the fear and anxiety level.

 

So, with that in mind, let’s turn back to the idea of entitlement and take a look at an article written by Carey Nieuwhof on the Orange Parents blog—“Five Ways to Fight Entitlement in Your Kids.”

 

3. Action Point

Take some time to read through the following article by Carey Nieuwhof—Lead Pastor at Connexus Community Church north of Toronto Canada—and discuss with your student how you can put at least 1 of the following 5 suggestions into practice.

 

Five Ways to Fight Entitlement in Your Kids

By Carey Nieuwhof


 

Like most parents, you feel this terrible tug.

 

On the one hand, you want to provide your child with every advantage. On the other hand, sometimes it feels like when you do that, you’re feeding an incredibly unhealthy characteristic in our culture.

 

For whatever reason, we’re living in the midst of an entitlement epidemic. Probably more than any other generation before us, our generation feels as though we have a right to things that used to be defined as wants, or even privileges.

Here’s how the cycle starts:

On the day your child is born, it’s easy to decide as a parent that you need to give your child every advantage.

 

So you compete. You made sure he had bright colors in his nursery and exactly the right kind of mobile to stimulate his brain, but now it’s an all out frenzy to ensure your preschooler can swim, skate, hit a ball, paint frameable art, read, write and speak classical Greek before his fourth birthday.

 

And don’t worry, because by the time you’re done with the race to kindergarten, the culture has taken over feeding the frenzy. Your child has now seen enough advertisements and made enough friends to believe that her every desire not only can be met, but should be met. The boots that every other stylish kid is wearing are not a privilege, they are a right. Or so you’ve been told.

And then other inalienable rights emerge: the right to a phone for texting, iPod touches, Facebook and so much more.

 

Somewhere in the mix, you found yourself realizing that you are tempted to pay your kids for every “act of service” rendered in the house, from emptying the trash to picking up each sock.

And you realize something is desperately wrong. And you would be correct in that.

So, what do you do to fight entitlement in yourself and in your kids? Here are five suggestions:

 

1.  Be clear on wants and needs. I joke with my kids that we owe them shelter, food and clothes, and I would be happy to slip a pizza under the door to their cardboard house any time they wish (they are 16 and 20, don’t try this with your 5-year-old, but you get the point.) Take time to explain what is actually a need and what a want is. Culture will never explain it to them. You need to.

2.  Reclaim special occasions. There is nothing wrong with not buying wants for your kids in every day life. Save the special things for special occasions like birthdays, Christmas and the like. You don’t need to indulge for no reason. In fact, you probably shouldn’t.

3.   Set a budget and let them choose. With back to school shopping and seasonal purchases, we started setting a budget with our kids early and then let them choose how they would spend it. They become much more frugal shoppers when all of a sudden they realize that money is limited and they can get more if they shop around.

4.  Establish an allowance and expectations. An allowance is a great way for a child to learn responsibility. We’ve encouraged our kids to give 10 percent of every thing they earn, save 10 percent, and live off the rest (the formula gets more restrictive the closer they get to college). Explain what gets covered and not covered out of that allowance.

5.  Be clear about what you will never pay them for. There are some things that you do because you are a part of the family. You can decide where that lands in your home. Make a list of responsibilities that no one gets paid for that you do because you are part of a family. To help with this, why not ask your kids what a reasonable list looks like? Involving them will help them own the decision. Second, make sure you follow up. And hold them responsible for what you all agreed to do. Otherwise you will be tempted to pay for everything or just roll your eyes daily and do it yourself.

Approaches like these can help raise kids who see life as a series of privileges, who live gratefully, and realize their responsibility to others.

 

How is our entitlement culture impacting your family? And how have you learned to battle it?

Crossroads Winter Conference Information


CROSSROADS WINTER CONFERENCE

January 18-21, 2013

 

Hey Student Families: 

 

I’m glad you’ve signed up for our trip to Crossroads Winter Conference at Gatlinburg, TN.  This will be an outstanding few days as we get away for some great worship and spiritual challenge with Clayton King, Carl Cartee and the rest of the Crossroads gang leading the way.  In addition to this, we’ll also enjoy a laid back weekend with the sights and activity of Gatlinburg possibly including (if time and space allows) a trip to Ober Gatlinburg for snow tubing. The rest of the details are below and if you have any questions just give me a holler.                                                               

                                                                                                ~Greg Wells

SCHEDULE

 

Fri., Jan. 18th

*5pm               Load in cars (Students bring dinner to eat en route)

*9pm               Opening Worship Service @ Gatlinburg Convention Center

 

Sat., Jan. 19th & Sun., Jan. 20th

*7:30am         Rise & Shine / Breakfast (complimentary of Glenstone Lodge)

*9:00am         Morning Worship

*11:00am       Lunch / Free Time

* 1:00pm        Workshops/Discussion Panels

* 5:00pm        Dinner Break

 

**One Dinner Break we’ll provide a Pizza dinner and students will have the option to pay an extra $25 to go to Ober Gatlinburg as a group for tubing down the alpine slide, and other winter fun.

 

*8:00pm         Evening Worship

*Midnight       Lights Out!

 

Mon., Jan. 21st

*7:30am         Breakfast / check out and load church vehicles

*9:00am         Closing Worship Service

*11:00 ish      Depart Gatlinburg headed home to Celebration Church

* 2:30 ish        Arrive at Celebration Church

 

LODGING

*Glenstone Lodge, Gatlinburg, TN (www.glenstonelodge.com)

*1-block from Gatlinburg Convention Center; indoor pool & Jacuzzi; indoor putting green; complimentary breakfast; Wi-Fi service provided

 

MEALS NEEDED FOR YOU TO PURCHASE

*Travel (1-Monday lunch) – fast food

*Dinner (Saturday) & Lunch (Saturday, Sunday) – touristy prices (everything from fast food to casual restaurants)

 

 

MEALS PROVIDED IN FEE

*Breakfasts @ Glenstone Lodge, 1 Dinner (Sat or Sun)

 

OTHER ITEMS NEEDED

*Warm, winter clothes for walking, tubing @ Ober Gatlinburg (www.obergatlinburg.com)

*Warm, modest, casual clothing

*Towel with swimsuit (modest 1-piece)

*Personal items (toothpaste, toothbrush, deodorant, etc.)

*Bible, pen, small notebook for teaching notes

*Snacks, drinks for your room

 

RULES & REMINDERS

*NO 2-piece swimsuits are allowed in the hotel pools/ Jacuzzi

*Any damage done to property of the hotels or Crossroads properties will be the responsibility of the individual and/or group

*Consumption of tobacco items, alcohol / drugs is NOT permitted during any part of the trip and will mean             an automatic “send home at parents’ expense”

*Groups and individuals must conduct themselves in an appropriate manner in hotels, restaurants, and the Gatlinburg area.  Please be considerate of others by refraining from screaming, yelling, or being excessively loud.  Also, there is to be NO running or rough housing inside hotel rooms or businesses.

*Students are to be on time for all meetings and departures

*YOU ARE TO COMPLETE the Crossroads Medical Release Form (emailed to you) and a Voltage Student Ministry Medical Release Form if you have not done a new one for this year (download off the youth website) www.celebrationyouth.blogspot.com

 

COST BREAKDOWN

$170               Base Cost = (lodging @ Glenstone Lodge, 3 breakfasts @ Glenstone, church will provide Saturday or Sunday dinner [depending on if and which day we go to Ober Gatlinburg], Crossroads conference costs.

 

$25 XTRA        Bring extra cash IF you want to go to Ober Gatlinburg on that Saturday or Sunday

 

$  XTRA          Meals in Gatlinburg you are responsible for =   $ for Saturday lunch & dinner, $ for   Sunday lunch & dinner; souvenirs, snacks; etc.

 

WINTER CONFERENCE PAYMENT PLAN

 

$50                  Deposit previously paid

$120               FINAL BALANCE THAT IS DUE

$25                  OPTIONAL  - For Ober Gatlinburg

 

ADULT CHAPERONES

Greg Wells                 678.634.3918                        Brandon Peevy          678.481.7877

Ashley Wells              678.372.6016                        Christy Peevy             678.458.4657

Leigh Anne Day         770.833.7138                       

 

 

 

 

FOOD PLAN

 

Friday Dinner

            Students bring own dinner to eat on the way to Gatlinburg

 

Saturday, Sunday & Monday Bkfst

            Provided by Hotel

 

Saturday & Sunday Lunch

            Students will buy own lunch

 

Saturday & Sunday Dinner

            Students will buy own lunch

            OR

Provided Pizza, Dessert & Drinks [for Ober Gatlinburg]

 

Snacks:  Friday, Saturday, Sunday night

Sweets

            Crackers

            Chips

            Capri suns/water

 

           

           

 

 

 

                                               

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Friday, December 28, 2012

Join us for a New Year!

 
 
We hope your Christmas was Merry and your spirits were bright...
 
 
Get ready to jump into 2013 as Voltage starts back January 9th.
 
You won't want to miss a minute of Wednesday nights at Celebration.
 
Invite a friend....or two....or three and get back in style!
 
See you then!
 
Greg and the Small Group Leaders!

Monday, December 10, 2012

Tis the season to




PARTY!!
 
 
THIS WEDNESDAY!!
 
 
Food, Games, Prizes, Photo Booth
Christmas fun!
 
Come dressed in your best or tackiest Christmas attire!
 
 
Bring a can of food = 1 piece of pizza
 
2 Cans of food = two pieces of pizza
 
3 cans of food = well...two pieces of pizza!!
 
 
Come give to others and have a Christmas BLAST! 

Friday, October 12, 2012


 
Calling All Parents!!
 

Ever wonder what your youth is doing on Wednesday nights?
 

Want to know more about how to sign up your student for trips?
 
Where we are going soon?
 
 
Want to know more about the vision of Celebration Youth?
 
Join us for a Parent's Night of Worship and Information.
 
Sunday, November 4th, 6 p.m.